Girls have different stages, what they expect will change accordingly. When they are young, they expect a true love, they needs someone that love them with all his heart. Being loyal is most important. everything is about love...
When they grow, they needs someone who have time to entertaint them. Being hilarious and willing to spend time with them is most important.
When they stepped into the society, money and network are most important to them. They will expand their network, they will meet more new friends, they will tell you they need to work hard and they have no time for you. They will always stay at work till late, hangout with their colleagues. Having fun around...While you're staying at home worrying and expecting for her call... while you're still remaining at the begining of the relationship as she told you to be loyal to her.
At this time, there will be alot of dogs out there watching your gf. They don't care if she has a bf. They will approach your gf and try to get close to her. Later on, they start to hangout together, he try to call your gf and chat with her. When you find out, you can't actually do a shit. If you are jealous, that means you are not open minded. If you scold her, that means you are control freak, you are a bad bf. If you talk to her nicely, she will ask you don't be so sensitive, they are just friend. If you don't care, they will be getting closer.
The most ridiculous is the gf think the dog has no intention at all and it's very normal that they can actually hangout and chat on the phone till late night. What do you think that dog must do all these to your gf while there are so many girls out there. With no intention at all? Just wan to be your friend?Girls, if you do really believe that.... STOP LYING! Or just admit that all of you are brainless and stupid!
Call you, bring you out even in a group, that's the begining of how a dog cheat a girl to the bed.
Later, that dog will date your gf out without anyone with his lame reason and call her more often. Then he will bring your gf go clubbing, make her drunk, dance with her and taking care of her. While your gf still insist they are just normal friends. Then one day the dog will tell your gf that he fall to her, he has feeling towards her and your gf actually feel the same.
At this moment, you can't actually do shit, that dog has more time and chances to be with your gf. You? You are just an outdated love story to her.
You can just wait, watching them from colleague > friend > close friend > affair.
This is what a good bf deserve to have.
You can't blame the dogs, there are million of these dogs out there. If your gf is good enough, she won't let the dogs to have chance.
Girls, you don't deserve ask for a true love when you don't know how to keep your self-esteem.
Guys, don't be stupid and be the antique one. Be one of the modern dogs.
I am a witness who witnessed too much of this happened around me.